1. The first thing you need to do after coming back home is to embrace your wife.
2. Ask her about her day. Your questions should prove that you are aware of her plans.
3. Learn to listen to her and ask questions.
4. Suppress the temptation to solve her problems. Instead of it, express your sympathy.
5. Within twenty minutes concentrate all your attention on your wife. Do not read newspapers and don’t do anything that might distract you.
6. Bring some flowers for your wife, both on the occasion and without a reason. Let it be a pleasant surprise for her.
7. Do not wait until Friday to ask your wife how she would like to spend the weekend, plan it ahead.
8. If your wife has to prepare dinner, and she is tired or too busy, try to help her.
9. Give compliments.
10. Respect her feelings when she is angry or upset.
11. Offer your help when your wife feels tired.
12. When traveling, plan extra time so that she wouldn’t have to hurry.
13. If you are late, call and tell her.
14. If your wife asks for help, help her or refuse, if you can’t do it, but do not blame her for asking.
15. If your wife is upset, express your sympathy. And don’t talk too much. Give her a chance to notice your attention. Do not offer your advice, do not try to prove that her feelings is not your fault.
16. If you want to be alone, tell your wife that you need time to think about some issues.
17. Explain the reason for your concern. Speak clearly.
18. When it’s cold offer to warm her.
19. When your wife talks to you, put aside a magazine or turn off the TV, listen to her without being distracted.
20. If the dishes are usually washed by your wife, offer your help from time to time, especially if she’s tired.
21. Notice when she is upset or tired. Ask what she needs to do. Then do some of the household chores.
22. Leaving home, ask whether it’s necessary to go to the store. Don’t forget about what you were asked to do.
23. Tell your wife, if you’re going somewhere.
24. Hug your wife at least four times a day.
25. Call your wife from work to share your news or just to say: “I love you!”
26. Tell your wife that you love her.
27. Make a bed and clean the bedroom, at least sometimes.
28. If your wife washes your socks, don’t make her look for them all over the house.
29. Get rid of the garbage.
30. If you must leave, call upon your arrival and leave a phone number. At the same time you will be able to tell your wife that you arrived safely.
31. Wash your wife’s car.
32. Before going together somewhere wash your car.