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25 Ways to Regain Passion

by Roman Soluk on March 28, 2011

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Tips to regain passion

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Passion is a strange thing: sometimes it’s hot like fire and then suddenly leaves only a few sparks. And regaining the emotional state like during the first dates is a complicated task for many couples. Here are 25 tips women can use to take the initiativein order to regain their passion.

Several tips that women can use to refresh intimate relationships

1. If you are going somewhere with your partner, “forget” to put on your panties and tell him about it.

2. When your partner is in a shower enter the bathroom and join the process or even develop it into something more.

3. Make fitness at least 30 minutes a day together with your partner: exercises can increase your libido.

4. Make him a surprise: put on the sexiest lingerie you have or if you don’t have then you’ll need to buy it (i.e. stockings, corsets, sexy panties etc… use your imagination).

5. Perform a striptease for your husband.

6. Have sex in the outdoors.

7. Create your intimate home video and then watch it together.

8. Meet him after work in an unusual way: use your imagination, think about things he likes.

9. Think of the first time you made love in detail.

10. Arrange a night of tantric sex.

11. Watch together some sexy films, but note that it shouldn’t be a primitive p0rn0.

12. Try sex “without hands”. Touch each other with everything except hands.

13. Share with each other your sexual fantasies and try to realize them.

14. Seduce him spontaneously and unexpectedly, for example, during breakfast when both of you are getting ready for work.

15. Use role-playing games.

16. Make love in unusual for you places.

17. Prepare an aphrodisiac dinner and offer him to feed each other sitting on the floor.

18. Have sex with your partner while he is still asleep.

19. Impress him – after coming home from work, start cooking dinner naked (certainly if it’s possible).

20. Sitting in the cinema or in other public places, offer him something hot and then see his reaction.

21. Encourage him to try new positions.

22. Take a trip to another city – new experience has a beneficial effect on intimate relationships. And, of course, don’t miss a chance to have sex in a car or a train!

23. If you have children and besides live with your parents, then spend a romantic night in a hotel room and order a bottle of champagne and a caviar.

24. Arrange a sexual photo session, offering him the role of the photographer.

25. Make a “night of kisses”. Try to make each kiss the longest and the most passionate. But during that evening forget about sex… only kisses.

Remember, that when a woman takes on the initiative it’s not bad, vice versa it’s a chance to show your man that you really love him and take care of your relationships. Besides, with these steps you won’t need to wait long, they will encourage your husband to act.

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Roman Soluk Roman Soluk is the founder and editor of Optimistic Lifestyle and Optimistic Lifestyle: Healthy Living. Find out more about him here or connect with him on Google+.

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Carabini April 27, 2011 at 3:09 AM

.Sure you and your partner love each other you connect well and have a rather healthy relationship but is your partner the one you should marry? However even if you have been with your partner for many years it does not mean you should stay in the relationship simply because you have been together for a long time. The first thing you need to do is understand what your goals are with your relationship.

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