What is unfair criticism for you?
You don’t feel at ease when speaking with someone who is criticizing you, or perhaps you feel humiliated? Believe me, there are no people without flaws in this world, but instead there are plenty of critics. The standard line of conduct in case when you are criticized – denial, the response criticism, perhaps, explanation or complete paralysis because of injustice. Do not react to criticism simply maintain your self-esteem at the proper level.
On the contrary, voice your positive features. Treat every situation with humor, especially criticism. Just think up a funny situation or reply and smile.
Also, ignore the criticism, turn and walk away, avoid the discussion if it is unpleasant to you, pretend that you are busy. Think about the meaning of the criticism and ask your critic to explain what he meant. Usually, in such cases the critic will withdraw.You need to tell a person that you dislike such criticism, it’s better than later suffering from these remarks. If it is the person you love, then convince that you love him/her and he/she will stop criticizing you.
And, finally, if you see that the criticism is fair, then show your critic that you treat it with understanding. Sometimes it’s useful to take into consideration the constructive criticism.
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